subtle-wind

[backcolor=#6699CC]Maybe loneliness is what everyone has to face. No matter you are single or not, you are rich or not, you are a success or not, you will have something you have to do by yourself. ---I give my loneliness and bother a proper reason.
These days I usually feel lonely and upset. I find many changes appear after the holiday. My roommate changed a lot. Maybe I changed more. No matter what happened, the result is that I can’t find a good topic with them when we stay together. All of them have boyfriends except me. They begin to plan their future life, but I’m not interesting that at all. And we are very busy with our studying. When we come back dorm, we are tired and want to go to bed. Now we have little time stay together. Most time I have to have my three meals alone, which make me have a bad appetite. I feel lonely, recognize the terror of loneliness. I miss the time we spend together. As for myself, I have many things to do, such as experiments, reading some papers about my subject, learning English and so on, but I can’t deal with them properly. Sometime I couldn’t find anything to encourage myself, felt I was a failure. I have tried to change my thoughts and work hard, the faraway success and the failure at present let me give up. [/backcolor]

laniyoyo

I am sorry to hear that you are lonely
As you say, maybe everyone feels lonely sometimes
But you must learn how to walk out of it
You'd better try to communicate with your doormates
Try to tell them all of your trouble
Open your heart
I think everything will go better
wish you happy soon

guangfengji

Maybe loneliness is what everyone has to face. No matter you are single or not, you are rich or not, you are a success or not, you will have something you have to do by yourself
although I have a lot to tell you ,but my english is poor ,someday i will tell you with my thoughts

subtle-wind

thanks.
Actually, i think i'm the main reason which caused me sad . They live happily in the same situation, but i can't . maybe what i want is too much, is too hard to own. i should change my thoughts sometimes.

achao

i am glad to hear what you have said above ! yes ,the main problem is not the environment but yourself .it is very important what attitude you hold on these changes (i.e having boyfriend)happened around you.i think you should make some following things clear:1.what is your goal here ?2.have you realize it ?3.what is the life you want ?like you roomates',or not ? if you really make them
sense,you maybe feel some better and know what you should do mainly now. walk your way!
someday you will find the right man! best wishes to you !

宝贝不是他

if you feel lonely,and you know i feel lonely,so, we won't feel lonely.
we have the same feeling.

subtle-wind

i have thought many times about what my soul is here, i can't keep them accordant.  sometimes i can't distinguish which is the one i long for mostly. [s:6]

kerence

Have u ever red the book-<How the steel is refined >?there is a good sentence:"The bread will have of, the milk will also have of, everythings all there will be" [s:795] [s:795] [s:795]

element.yang

If this is called lonely then my condition would be more severe than yours [s:2]
I often ignore my roommates and speak to them only when I want or have something to say.
Maybe you are too much sentimental, or just become the difference between male and female.
You have to leave your roommate one day, don&#39;t worry about it anymore